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The Wedding Timeline
My personal approach to your day...
My personal approach to your day...
This is a little taster of how I go about photographing your day, with a 'typical' timeline in mind. I have broken down the day into smaller segments to explain how I personally approach each part. Of course no two weddings are the same and many couples are opting for a non-traditional approach which is exciting! But I hope it gives you an insight into my style and perhaps might even help you with your own plans.
So, let's dive in...
1. Bride Prep
Or as I like to call it; “Finishing touches”, because it's a common misconception that the photographer is going to arrive as you finish your last mouthful of Weetabix, you haven't brushed your teeth, or your hair... Haha! Believe me this would provide some fantastic candid photo opportunities but I'm not going to do that to you on your wedding day :) Unless you want me to? I mean I'm a fan of authenticity, but not everything has to be documented.
If you’ve been following me on Instagram you’ll know that prep is one of my favourite parts of a wedding day. There’s a certain buzz of anticipation bubbling away under the calm exterior, a sense of apprehension and excitement about the day ahead. Bridesmaids are in good spirits, the bride is beaming and often surprised at how calm she feels. My adrenaline is high too, but I like to think I bring a calm but jolly energy to the party. I'm here for it all, the emotion, the jokes, the gossiping but not the bubbly sadly (I don't drink at work!).
I arrive in good time (usually a touch earlier than scheduled to put you, and me, at ease). This gives me a chance to say hi, have a little chat and introduce myself to your bride tribe, then stay out of your way while you’re having your hair and makeup done. This is when I’ll gather your details (unless you are very organised and have already given them to me); shoes, jewellery, perfume, garter, invites and of course the all important wedding gown. The first thing I usually do is find the perfect spot to hang the dress, it has to be just right. Sometimes it's obvious to me instantly when I arrive where I'm going to hang it but sometimes my task requires a little more thought or creativity. Hopefully by this point you and your bridal party will have gotten used to me being around and I begin discreetly capturing some candids of you and your crew. Once you’re in your dress I’ll photograph your mum or bridesmaid fastening it and hopefully get some natural shots of you together. I like to find a nice big window to stand you next to for some gorgeous, flattering natural light. Next the finishing touches; lipstick, jewellery, shoes, veil. And, while you're bathing in that natural light I like to get some bridal portraits of you here in your dress, then bring in Mother of the Bride, siblings etc. Lastly, first look with dad. I’ve photographed a few weddings recently where dad was cool as a cucumber and not very emotional, they’re not all criers I know, but this usually makes for a great shot anyway where we all rip him to pieces, haha!
At this point, the calm has usually turned to urgency as everyone realises it’s time to go! And so I wish you all the best and make my way to the ceremony venue.
MY PREP TIP: Pack your bag early! so you’re not left hunting for your for lipstick, tissues etc. last minute. This is often the last thing brides do before they leave and can cause some anxiety!
2. Groom (partner) Prep
Brides, sorry it’s not all about you ;-) Although the majority of men aren’t too fussed about having their preparations captured, I always ask the question, because if feasible to do, I think it completes the story of your day. I also think it’s lovely for the other partner to see the other side, how they started their day. As well as details; cufflinks, shoes, cologne, the rings are more often than not with the groom and so this gives me the opportunity to photograph them before they are on your fingers.
If you are getting ready at the same venue or close by, ask your photographer if they would mind nipping over to capture some photos of the groom and groomsmen getting ready, exchanging some banter, giving the groom stick or just being all manly and cool 😜
The other option if you're keen to have both preps captured is to book a second shooter. That way if you are further apart in distance or short on time the second photographer can capture the groom while the primary photographer can concentrate solely on the bride.
If you are getting ready at the same venue or close by, ask your photographer if they would mind nipping over to capture some photos of the groom and groomsmen getting ready, exchanging some banter, giving the groom stick or just being all manly and cool 😜
The other option if you're keen to have both preps captured is to book a second shooter. That way if you are further apart in distance or short on time the second photographer can capture the groom while the primary photographer can concentrate solely on the bride.
3. Ceremony
This is where things get a bit more serious, where I need to be in the right place at the right time and focus on capturing the key moments. Making sure I’m not in anyones way and being as discreet as possible.
After shooting several wedding ceremonies I now have a ‘formula’ that works for me. Although depending on the venue or circumstances I may need to adjust it to fit, particularly when it comes to church ceremonies where the rules are often much stricter. It may be useful to bare this in mind when considering a church wedding, some vicars can be a little inflexible shall we say when it comes to the photographer’s position. Whereas my experience with celebrants and registrars have been nothing but positive!
After shooting several wedding ceremonies I now have a ‘formula’ that works for me. Although depending on the venue or circumstances I may need to adjust it to fit, particularly when it comes to church ceremonies where the rules are often much stricter. It may be useful to bare this in mind when considering a church wedding, some vicars can be a little inflexible shall we say when it comes to the photographer’s position. Whereas my experience with celebrants and registrars have been nothing but positive!
The formula: I arrive in good time to capture candids of the guests arriving, their lovely outfits and the ceremony room filling up. I then head to front of the venue in preparation for the bride's entrance. I like to capture the groom (or partner's) nervous expression as he waits for his bride. I move into the centre briefly to to capture Paige boys and bridesmaids coming down the isle followed by the bride and her father. I stay this side to capture the groom's reaction and there is often something amusing going on with the Father of the Bride at this point too as he hands over his daughter. During the ceremony like to focus in on guests in the audience and their expressions, paying particular attention when the registrar asks if anyone has any just cause! At some stage before the big moments I like to head to the back of the room to get a different perspective, capturing the whole ceremony from afar; the guests, bride and groom. I head back to the front for the ring exchange to capture close up details of the rings and hands and finally the first kiss. I like to get guests reactions in the background behind the couple. I will often ask them to 'whoop!' to create energy and laughter in the room. Then I run up towards the back of the venue and walk back with the Bride and Groom as they head up the isle together as husband and wife! And that's it in a nutshell. I hope you found this helpful.
4. Confetti
The all important confetti shot - no pressure!! Very often straight after the ceremony and even sometimes as the couple walk back down the isle.
The pressure is on again for the photographer. This is where my good friend adrenaline gives me a nudge and forces me to speak loudly and clearly to organise the crowd. For the most part I pride myself on being that subtle, unobstrusive photographer but there are some parts of the day that require me to step up and direct the shoot a little. Confetti being one of them, also group shots and couples portraits.
My plan of action:
1. I ask guests to split into two equal groups and make a walkway for the couple.
2. I tell them to grab a BIG fist-full of confetti, two if they can manage it, and get ready!
3. I ask them to wait until the couple are close before they throw their confetti.
4. I also suggest some is thrown upwards and in front of the couple or better still towards or AT me!! That way we will get better confetti coverage and some larger bits nearer the lens for an epic shot
5. It doesn't stop there, there are always some great post-confetti candids to be captured, confetti in the hair, down the bride's bra, in the groom's ears!!
TOP CONFETTI TIPS:
⚡️Use large discs for more striking effects. They show up SO much better on camera
⚡️Choose confetti that matches your colour scheme
⚡️Or opt for rainbow confetti for a colour explosion!
⚡️Make sure you order BUCKETLOADS!! More the merrier and if it didn’t quite go to plan the first time, we go again!
⚡️If your venue doesn’t allow confetti, choose bubbles! These can look amazing in photos! Especially if the photographer is clever (or lucky) and gets some close up bigger bubbles front of shot 👌🏻
Some of my favourite biodegradable confetti suppliers (give them a follow):
@yourconfetti / @papercirclesconfetti / @proper.confetti
The pressure is on again for the photographer. This is where my good friend adrenaline gives me a nudge and forces me to speak loudly and clearly to organise the crowd. For the most part I pride myself on being that subtle, unobstrusive photographer but there are some parts of the day that require me to step up and direct the shoot a little. Confetti being one of them, also group shots and couples portraits.
My plan of action:
1. I ask guests to split into two equal groups and make a walkway for the couple.
2. I tell them to grab a BIG fist-full of confetti, two if they can manage it, and get ready!
3. I ask them to wait until the couple are close before they throw their confetti.
4. I also suggest some is thrown upwards and in front of the couple or better still towards or AT me!! That way we will get better confetti coverage and some larger bits nearer the lens for an epic shot
5. It doesn't stop there, there are always some great post-confetti candids to be captured, confetti in the hair, down the bride's bra, in the groom's ears!!
TOP CONFETTI TIPS:
⚡️Use large discs for more striking effects. They show up SO much better on camera
⚡️Choose confetti that matches your colour scheme
⚡️Or opt for rainbow confetti for a colour explosion!
⚡️Make sure you order BUCKETLOADS!! More the merrier and if it didn’t quite go to plan the first time, we go again!
⚡️If your venue doesn’t allow confetti, choose bubbles! These can look amazing in photos! Especially if the photographer is clever (or lucky) and gets some close up bigger bubbles front of shot 👌🏻
Some of my favourite biodegradable confetti suppliers (give them a follow):
@yourconfetti / @papercirclesconfetti / @proper.confetti
5. Group shots
So we’ve done confetti, your guests are mingling and still within reach, so now is a good time to grab them for group photos.
My approach? GET. IT. DONE. I try to make these as quick and fun as possible. Starting with the standard ‘smile at the camera’ for grandma, then a close up, followed by “do whatever you want”. It’s fun to watch the madness unravel! For bridesmaids and groomsmen I’ll often suggest a ‘walk and talk’, a bit like we used to do in drama class, not sure about you but we were told to say "Rhubarb, rhubarb..." No? Just me then! Anyway, this usually results in lots of laughter.
I must admit this part of the day is the most pressured for me, but only when there is a fair size list of combinations. You will have supplied a list of group shots in your questionnaire and hopefully nominated an organised groomsman or bridesmaid with a confident voice who knows the family well enough to beckon them. I always recommend keeping your list to a minimum, 10 at the very most, because you’ll soon realise when it comes to this part of the day you won’t want to stand around for long. Many of my brides understandably end up ditching the list either out of frustration, not being able to find people, or wanting to get on with the celebrations!
So, my advice is think about the ones you’d be sorry to miss. Elderly granparents, super close relatives or distant friends. At my own wedding, my mum only realised afterwards that there were no photos of just her and dad together. My dad has since passed and this is a huge regret of mine. So be selective but make sure you include the important ones. Group photos aren’t just for the bridal party and family either, if you’re keen to get a shot of you and your best pals give me a shout. These can be taken at any time during the day though. Even on the dance floor!
My approach? GET. IT. DONE. I try to make these as quick and fun as possible. Starting with the standard ‘smile at the camera’ for grandma, then a close up, followed by “do whatever you want”. It’s fun to watch the madness unravel! For bridesmaids and groomsmen I’ll often suggest a ‘walk and talk’, a bit like we used to do in drama class, not sure about you but we were told to say "Rhubarb, rhubarb..." No? Just me then! Anyway, this usually results in lots of laughter.
I must admit this part of the day is the most pressured for me, but only when there is a fair size list of combinations. You will have supplied a list of group shots in your questionnaire and hopefully nominated an organised groomsman or bridesmaid with a confident voice who knows the family well enough to beckon them. I always recommend keeping your list to a minimum, 10 at the very most, because you’ll soon realise when it comes to this part of the day you won’t want to stand around for long. Many of my brides understandably end up ditching the list either out of frustration, not being able to find people, or wanting to get on with the celebrations!
So, my advice is think about the ones you’d be sorry to miss. Elderly granparents, super close relatives or distant friends. At my own wedding, my mum only realised afterwards that there were no photos of just her and dad together. My dad has since passed and this is a huge regret of mine. So be selective but make sure you include the important ones. Group photos aren’t just for the bridal party and family either, if you’re keen to get a shot of you and your best pals give me a shout. These can be taken at any time during the day though. Even on the dance floor!
6. Candids
It's all about the candids! After your group photos I let you go off and have a drink and settle into your day. A lot of people are going to want a piece of you and so this is your time to mingle and enjoy the attention. While you're schmoozing, I'm doing my own mingling, or stealthily capturing your guests having the best time while trying to remain invisible. Cut to me hiding behind a tree lol. It's not quite that extreme but I do try and blend in and not be too conspicuous. I am pretty much always smiling and I like to strike up the occasional conversation or join in with the fun so that guests aren't suspicious of the weirdo with the camera ;-) I love this part of your day because...
I get to:
⚡️snap you and your guests having the best time!
⚡️hang back and watch the magic happen
⚡️capture the most natural portraits you’ll ever see
⚡️watch your guests getting increasingly tipsy
⚡️show you when you look back at your photos how much fun your guests were having.
I am a people watcher. Humans fascinate me, surprise me, move me, make me laugh! When the energy is high and the people are joyful I feel incredibly lucky to be doing this job. Of course, I’m taking candid shots all day long but the biggest chunk of them tend to be during the drinks reception where people have started to mingle and relax into the day.
It's all about the candids! After your group photos I let you go off and have a drink and settle into your day. A lot of people are going to want a piece of you and so this is your time to mingle and enjoy the attention. While you're schmoozing, I'm doing my own mingling, or stealthily capturing your guests having the best time while trying to remain invisible. Cut to me hiding behind a tree lol. It's not quite that extreme but I do try and blend in and not be too conspicuous. I am pretty much always smiling and I like to strike up the occasional conversation or join in with the fun so that guests aren't suspicious of the weirdo with the camera ;-) I love this part of your day because...
I get to:
⚡️snap you and your guests having the best time!
⚡️hang back and watch the magic happen
⚡️capture the most natural portraits you’ll ever see
⚡️watch your guests getting increasingly tipsy
⚡️show you when you look back at your photos how much fun your guests were having.
I am a people watcher. Humans fascinate me, surprise me, move me, make me laugh! When the energy is high and the people are joyful I feel incredibly lucky to be doing this job. Of course, I’m taking candid shots all day long but the biggest chunk of them tend to be during the drinks reception where people have started to mingle and relax into the day.
7. Details
During the drinks reception before the main reception room fills up with guests is a great time to grab some detail shots. These usually include things like;
⚡️the cake
⚡️table decor
⚡️place settings
⚡️signage
⚡️crisp walls
⚡️flowers
I was recently mocked by a guest for taking photos of place settings, he said in a jokey way “it’s getting boring now”, and I replied “it’s not boring to the bride, she’s put a lot of thought and effort into these details”. Although it was said in jest and our exchange was very light-hearted, it did irk me a bit because I know first hand how much these things matter to couples. It just shows how times have changed and how couples now have so much input and control over their own wedding day, they add so many personal touches to make their day unique and represent them as a couple.
⚡️the cake
⚡️table decor
⚡️place settings
⚡️signage
⚡️crisp walls
⚡️flowers
I was recently mocked by a guest for taking photos of place settings, he said in a jokey way “it’s getting boring now”, and I replied “it’s not boring to the bride, she’s put a lot of thought and effort into these details”. Although it was said in jest and our exchange was very light-hearted, it did irk me a bit because I know first hand how much these things matter to couples. It just shows how times have changed and how couples now have so much input and control over their own wedding day, they add so many personal touches to make their day unique and represent them as a couple.
"Wedding photography isn’t just about photographing what happened and who was there, it’s so much more. It’s about capturing your wedding story, the feeling, the vibe, the details! I love framing your details, putting them in focus, to show they matter."
8. Speeches
I love a good speech. I WILL laugh out loud and cry along with the rest of you. By the time your wedding arrives I should know you quite well and feel invested in your story and so listening to people gush about you gets me in the feels too. During this part of your day, I’ll be moving around a lot to catch reactions from you and your guests, but being mindful not to get in anyones way. It’s a tricky balance. Be warned though, I’ve seen a lot of speeches so I can suss out which ones have been grabbed from the internet!
9. Couples Portraits
Not necessarily in this order – I do like to steal you away for a few minutes before you sit down for your meal. But if the weather is kind to us I also like to take advantage of that soft evening sun right before sunset which often falls in that strange period after the daytime celebrations come to a close and as your evening guests arrive. This is where you get to enjoy your new husband or wife, spend a quiet moment together, before going back to the party!
And that is exactly what I encourage you to do, take each other in, enjoy this moment as newlyweds. I encourage you to look at one another (not at the camera, unless I specifically ask you to), hold your husband/wife and connect with them. Couples are often nervous about being in front of the camera but once you're together in that bubble of love I think the moment just takes over, the significance of the day helps you to breeze through and enjoy the experience! There's nothing to it really, we're just out and about having laugh and a giggle on one of the best days of your lives, while I capture it all.
I often start with a walk to get you warmed up, holding hands or arms wrapped around each other. I use prompts to encourage movement and emotion in my portrait sessions. The 'Tipsy walk' is a favourite, it gets couples laughing every time as they bump into each other. This and the many other prompts I have in my tool kit are sure to relax you and ease you in, creating the most beautiful natural portraits.
At the end of the day, I am looking for AUTHENTICITY in your photos. Genuine emotion, happiness, laughter and connection. I want you to look at your photos and see yourselves as you truly are and remember the moment as if it were yesterday.
And that is exactly what I encourage you to do, take each other in, enjoy this moment as newlyweds. I encourage you to look at one another (not at the camera, unless I specifically ask you to), hold your husband/wife and connect with them. Couples are often nervous about being in front of the camera but once you're together in that bubble of love I think the moment just takes over, the significance of the day helps you to breeze through and enjoy the experience! There's nothing to it really, we're just out and about having laugh and a giggle on one of the best days of your lives, while I capture it all.
I often start with a walk to get you warmed up, holding hands or arms wrapped around each other. I use prompts to encourage movement and emotion in my portrait sessions. The 'Tipsy walk' is a favourite, it gets couples laughing every time as they bump into each other. This and the many other prompts I have in my tool kit are sure to relax you and ease you in, creating the most beautiful natural portraits.
At the end of the day, I am looking for AUTHENTICITY in your photos. Genuine emotion, happiness, laughter and connection. I want you to look at your photos and see yourselves as you truly are and remember the moment as if it were yesterday.
10. First Dance
This brings me to the end of the day right before the real party starts. Probably the last nerve-wracking thing you have left to do ;-) Or maybe by this point you’re past caring and are too loved up or drunk to notice everybody watching.
This is where I usually bring out the flash. I aim to be flash-less during the day, relying on that soft flattering natural light (unless the venue is super dark or it’s a dull day). But the dance floor lends itself to flash photography, particularly when working with colourful disco lights!
I tend move around you a little without getting on top of you or in anyones way. Couples tend to turn naturally, allowing me to get lots of angles. Capturing those little glances over the shoulder, eyes closed lost in the moment, arms wrapped around each other. This is also the perfect opportunity to capture more of those authentic couples portraits!
First dances are usually quite short as the couple tend to invite their guests onto the dance floor with them. And this is when I get right in the action!
This is where I usually bring out the flash. I aim to be flash-less during the day, relying on that soft flattering natural light (unless the venue is super dark or it’s a dull day). But the dance floor lends itself to flash photography, particularly when working with colourful disco lights!
I tend move around you a little without getting on top of you or in anyones way. Couples tend to turn naturally, allowing me to get lots of angles. Capturing those little glances over the shoulder, eyes closed lost in the moment, arms wrapped around each other. This is also the perfect opportunity to capture more of those authentic couples portraits!
First dances are usually quite short as the couple tend to invite their guests onto the dance floor with them. And this is when I get right in the action!
MY PERSONAL ADVICE: Don't put pressure on yourself and your partner to 'perform' a rehearsed dance. I am a huge dance (and Strictly) fan and it was my dream to dance my favourite style, the Argentine Tango on my wedding day. In my head it was going to be this amazing performance worthy of a place on Strictly haha! But I was so so nervous and when I look back at the video, it looks so bog-standard and I was so nervous I didn't particularly enjoy it. I regret now not just being in the moment with my husband, holding him and forgetting about everyone else watching.
11. Dance Floor!
When it comes to the dance floor, you'll always find me on it! Me and my sister were always the first on and the last off the dance-floor growing up. So expect no less at your wedding! I'll be in the middle with my flash, throwing some shapes with the rest of you. I usually end up over staying my welcome cause I don't want to leave!
This is the moment when everyone (including me) let's their hair down and the inhibitions come out. For me this is a chance to capture some really fun, goofy candids of your guests living their best life and focus in on those larger than life characters, maybe even catch your gran waving a glow stick in the air!
This is the moment when everyone (including me) let's their hair down and the inhibitions come out. For me this is a chance to capture some really fun, goofy candids of your guests living their best life and focus in on those larger than life characters, maybe even catch your gran waving a glow stick in the air!
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Choosing your wedding venue
December 19, 2024
December 19, 2024
Recently engaged and searching for the perfect wedding venue to host your big day? I've put together my top 5 photographer tips to help you make your decision.
Finding the perfect venue is usually the first port of call when planning a wedding and one of the most difficult decisions you'll make in my opinion as there are SO many wonderful options. If you are struggling to make a decision and just need that sign from god…or your friendly local photographer 😁 then I am here to make it a bit easier for you. If your wedding photos are super important to you then there are a few things to consider when it comes to your wedding venue space. Because your venue really does make a huge difference to your wedding photos, here's why:
1. Light:
As a natural light photographer who resists using flash where possible (for more flattering and true to life portraits) I look for open windows, doorways or skylights. Us photographers crave the natural light and so large open windows and doors are our friends. We also love white walls and/or ceilings, these are particularly appreciated when a flash is required because it allows us to 'bounce' our flash off these surfaces when we need that extra light boost, creating a softer more natural exposure . Dark wood and dark painted walls can be problematic, unless there is enough natural light coming through the windows. When there is enough natural light, dark wooden beams or bold coloured walls can be so striking, so don't rule them out.
As a natural light photographer who resists using flash where possible (for more flattering and true to life portraits) I look for open windows, doorways or skylights. Us photographers crave the natural light and so large open windows and doors are our friends. We also love white walls and/or ceilings, these are particularly appreciated when a flash is required because it allows us to 'bounce' our flash off these surfaces when we need that extra light boost, creating a softer more natural exposure . Dark wood and dark painted walls can be problematic, unless there is enough natural light coming through the windows. When there is enough natural light, dark wooden beams or bold coloured walls can be so striking, so don't rule them out.
2. Space:
Wide open spaces are great, especially if you have a large guest list to accommodate. This allows them, and me, to move around and capture the whole scene. It also allows me to be more discreet and not pointing my camera in your guests faces when capturing candid shots. As I am predominantly a documentary style photographer, I aim to be as invisible as possible during your day. I do like to mingle however and build a good rapport with your guests (you'll see me smiling pretty much all day and throwing a fair few shapes on the dance floor in the evening!).
Wide open spaces are great, especially if you have a large guest list to accommodate. This allows them, and me, to move around and capture the whole scene. It also allows me to be more discreet and not pointing my camera in your guests faces when capturing candid shots. As I am predominantly a documentary style photographer, I aim to be as invisible as possible during your day. I do like to mingle however and build a good rapport with your guests (you'll see me smiling pretty much all day and throwing a fair few shapes on the dance floor in the evening!).
3. Prep:
If you are staying at your ceremony venue, consider the room you will be getting ready in. Does the venue have an attractive bridal suite with plenty of natural light? Again, look for large windows or skylights, or failing that, light coloured walls and ceilings. Interesting or ornate features can provide a beautiful backdrop. I personally love wooden beams, bay windows, four poster beds and roll top baths. Again, plenty of space is a plus because there will be lots of bodies floating about on the morning; hair and make-up, mums, sisters, bridesmaids. And not only that, consider the clutter that will inevitably mount up; handbags, beauty products, discarded underwear (you'd be surprised!). Clutter is our enemy as photographers because we often end up having to photoshop image after image to remove these items that we don't necessarily spot at the time.
Side tip: ask your bridesmaids to have a quick tidy up before or as your photographer arrives.
If you are staying at your ceremony venue, consider the room you will be getting ready in. Does the venue have an attractive bridal suite with plenty of natural light? Again, look for large windows or skylights, or failing that, light coloured walls and ceilings. Interesting or ornate features can provide a beautiful backdrop. I personally love wooden beams, bay windows, four poster beds and roll top baths. Again, plenty of space is a plus because there will be lots of bodies floating about on the morning; hair and make-up, mums, sisters, bridesmaids. And not only that, consider the clutter that will inevitably mount up; handbags, beauty products, discarded underwear (you'd be surprised!). Clutter is our enemy as photographers because we often end up having to photoshop image after image to remove these items that we don't necessarily spot at the time.
Side tip: ask your bridesmaids to have a quick tidy up before or as your photographer arrives.
4. The dress:
Consider where your photographer might photograph your dress. Are there any good spots to hang it? A high hook somewhere with an attractive backdrop. Wooden beams, an ornate stairwell or a pretty doorway can work really well. Some photographers like to hang the dress outside for a truly natural rustic feel. Perhaps there's a pretty tree in the garden or an out-house or barn with the property. There are plenty of options but of course you MUST be comfortable and trust your photographer with the task of hanging your dress outdoors.
Side tip: (any photographer will thank you for this) Bring along a nice hanger; white wood or black velvet are lovely.
Consider where your photographer might photograph your dress. Are there any good spots to hang it? A high hook somewhere with an attractive backdrop. Wooden beams, an ornate stairwell or a pretty doorway can work really well. Some photographers like to hang the dress outside for a truly natural rustic feel. Perhaps there's a pretty tree in the garden or an out-house or barn with the property. There are plenty of options but of course you MUST be comfortable and trust your photographer with the task of hanging your dress outdoors.
Side tip: (any photographer will thank you for this) Bring along a nice hanger; white wood or black velvet are lovely.
5. The grounds:
It’s not just inside that counts but also the outside area and surroundings. From a photography point of view, does the venue have natural open spaces, a woodland area perhaps, in case of bright sunny days or rain where covered areas come in handy. This can make for some beautiful golden hour portraits too, think lush meadows or wheat fields at sunset. If the venue itself doesn’t have a suitable area, perhaps there are some fields nearby you might be able to use. It doesn't have to be rural of course, your venue could be by the coast or in the city. Cities provide excellent backdrops for portraits too; a striking city skyline, interesting architecture or a cute little cafe for a relaxed and intimate shot of the two of you hanging out.
It’s not just inside that counts but also the outside area and surroundings. From a photography point of view, does the venue have natural open spaces, a woodland area perhaps, in case of bright sunny days or rain where covered areas come in handy. This can make for some beautiful golden hour portraits too, think lush meadows or wheat fields at sunset. If the venue itself doesn’t have a suitable area, perhaps there are some fields nearby you might be able to use. It doesn't have to be rural of course, your venue could be by the coast or in the city. Cities provide excellent backdrops for portraits too; a striking city skyline, interesting architecture or a cute little cafe for a relaxed and intimate shot of the two of you hanging out.
And that's it, my 5 tips when it comes to choosing a wedding venue that will pretty much guarantee great photos.
If you'd like any wedding advice or inspiration or if you have any photography related questions please drop me a message, I'd love to hear from you.
If you'd like any wedding advice or inspiration or if you have any photography related questions please drop me a message, I'd love to hear from you.
Here are some fabulous venue options in the North West which have several of the features above;
Highfield Hall have a large conservatory 'The Orangery' which offers plenty of natural light as well as stunning grounds with the option to get married outside and a beautiful light and airy honeymoon suite complete with roll-top bath.
Scarlet Hall is an exclusive private venue with a large wedding barn offering natural light and a gorgeous rustic feel. With '5 acres of sweeping lawns' there are plenty of options for couples portraits outside as well as two stunning houses, the manor and coach house. These both have stunning features, wooden beams and even an indoor pool.
Tyn Dwr Hall a grade II listed country hall surrounded by Welsh countryside. Both the ceremony ballroom and reception garden room have high ceilings and large windows offering oodles of natural daylight and beautiful views of the countryside. You'll be spoilt for choice outdoors as well with the lush farmland and ancient woodland complete with stream and waterfall.
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Claire + Ian
November 23, 2024
November 23, 2024
A festive candle-lit ceremony at The Fields wedding venue in the Cheshire countryside...and just down the road from my house haha!
You know when you meet some people and you feel as if you've known them for years? Well Claire and Ian were that, for me. I don't know what it was, it just felt 'easy' with these two. It helps that they are a) very very lovely and b) down to earth! Since starting my wedding photography career I have remained true to myself and have been very fortunate with the couples who have chosen me. It is so important to me that my couples feel at ease in my company and the only way that is going to happen is if I am my true self (which is smiley, light-hearted and wholesome with a hint of mischief haha!). The photography, I believe, should then come naturally and reflect the true emotion and essence of your day.
Claire and Ian's day was a very wet one unfortunately but it actually didn't dampen the mood in the slightest. Aside from a little nerves before the ceremony, Claire and Ian had huge smiles on their faces all day long - as did I! It also went with the cosy festive vibes which Claire had I think envisioned since day one. The decor, styled and arranged by Flossies Weddings was absolutely beautiful and brought a tear to Claire's eye when she was first shown into the wedding breakfast room. When I asked Claire at our final meeting before the day, what she was most looking forward to, it was this, seeing the room decorated and all details she had planned come together.
If you love Christmas and are planning a festive themed wedding, I think The Fields fits the bill as a venue. It has a cosy winter feel with dark wood a roaring fire and the Christmas decorations are stunning! They also have an outdoor hut complete with wood fired pizza oven. What's not to love?!
Full gallery coming soon...
Supplier shout out:
Dress @bridesofchester / Suits @cavaniofchester / Venue The Fields / Make-up @madeupbycathryn / Hair @carolellisthompsonbridalhair / Flowers + Styling @flossiesweddings / Stationery @ellebeedesign /
Rings @austenandblake / Photobooth @jollygoodphotoco / Confetti @papercirclesconfetti
Dress @bridesofchester / Suits @cavaniofchester / Venue The Fields / Make-up @madeupbycathryn / Hair @carolellisthompsonbridalhair / Flowers + Styling @flossiesweddings / Stationery @ellebeedesign /
Rings @austenandblake / Photobooth @jollygoodphotoco / Confetti @papercirclesconfetti
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Debbie + John
September 26, 2024
September 26, 2024
A laid-back family-focused celebration of two people clearly very much in love at The Beaches Hotel, Prestatyn.
Debbie + John's wedding was as much about them as it was about their children. This was even highlighted in the stationery and invitations which were Marvel themed. Between them they have 6 beautiful children who are all a credit to their parents. On the day the girls made beautiful bridesmaids and the boys Hayden and Ollie had their rolls too, Ollie doing a brilliant job as ring barer and Hayden being the cutest page boy. They girls in particular made me feel so welcome and chatted to me all day long, providing me with lots of photo opportunities too! I will remember this day as being full of love, laughs and awesome facial expressions! Thank you Debbie for your expressive nature, this made for some super fun, authentic shots.
Samanta + Matt
September 14, 2024
September 14, 2024
A tale of two halves: a beautiful traditional ceremony at St Werburgh's church, followed by a laid-back BBQ reception at The Mount Inn, Chester.
Samanta and Matt first met campaigning during the 2019 General Election. Matt was part of the election sign team and Sam was helping in the campaign office.
"Some time down the line we found out I had spotted Matt much earlier during the campaign and he was popping into the office much more frequently than usual looking for 'his Latvian'. Many elections, dates, holidays and laughs later we are getting ready to celebrate our friendship and our love at our wedding."
I love hearing my couples love stories, how they met, who said "I love you" first. These are the sorts of questions I include in my pre-wedding questionnaires, to get to know your story a little better. I think it gives me a great starting point from which to capture 'The Wedding' part of your story and makes me feel even more emotionally involved.
"Soon after we got together lockdown was announced. When we were allowed to meet one person outside, we used to go for a walk after work and meet half way in Grosvenor Park. We used to meet under 'our tree', share a glass of wine and a chat and then go our separate ways."
Supplier shout out:
Flowers @purely_pots / Dress @justinalexander / Suits @mossbross / Cake @pipoca.cakestudio /
Bridesmaid Dresses @prettylavishuk / Hair @air_with_nadia_rebecca / Makeup @makeupby_beckyhuntx
Flowers @purely_pots / Dress @justinalexander / Suits @mossbross / Cake @pipoca.cakestudio /
Bridesmaid Dresses @prettylavishuk / Hair @air_with_nadia_rebecca / Makeup @makeupby_beckyhuntx
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Alice + Paige
August 22, 2024
August 22, 2024
It was round two for these girls, having tied the knot in February due to a family illness.
They sealed the deal at Oddfellows, Chester with their nearest and dearest.
They sealed the deal at Oddfellows, Chester with their nearest and dearest.
I felt like I'd known Alice and Paige a lifetime by the time it came to wedding number two; one wedding and an engagement shoot later! And it was lovely and intimate family affair. Paige's sister delivered the blessing beautifully and their cute dog Patrick was the ring bearer! Scroll down to see Paige's home made cake (which was incredible!) as well as the quirky Alice in wonderland themed place-settings. Scroll down a bit further to see our fun photoshoot in Chester city centre; involving a stop-off at Five Guys for a milkshake!
If you are looking for an intimate wedding venue with quirky decor, who allow dogs and which is a stones throw from the beautiful historic city of Chester ideal for couples portraits, then Oddfellows is a brilliant choice!
If you are looking for an intimate wedding venue with quirky decor, who allow dogs and which is a stones throw from the beautiful historic city of Chester ideal for couples portraits, then Oddfellows is a brilliant choice!
Supplier shout out:
Flowers TBC / Dress + Veil @bellissimabrides / Cake home made by Paige / Confetti TBC /
Banners TBC / Hair + Makeup TBC
Flowers TBC / Dress + Veil @bellissimabrides / Cake home made by Paige / Confetti TBC /
Banners TBC / Hair + Makeup TBC
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Clara + Rob
August 10, 2024
August 10, 2024
A beautiful intimate church blessing at St Oswalds, Lower Peover.
Instead of the traditional white dress, Clara, who is from Spain chose a stunning satin skirt with pockets by Spanish designer Fatima Angulo, paired with a gorgeous Sezane blouse. I just adore her look it's so unique! Rob and Clara were one of the sweetest, kindest most fun couples you'd ever wish to meet and I felt so humbled to be their wedding photographer and to be welcomed into their intimate family gathering.
They had a simple service at St Oswalds with a small number of friends and family followed by a relaxed sit down meal in the Bells of Peover pub right next door!
They had a simple service at St Oswalds with a small number of friends and family followed by a relaxed sit down meal in the Bells of Peover pub right next door!
Sitting at my desk last night going through Clara + Rob’s previews it struck me how HONEST and TRUE these portraits feel. I can not just see the genuine love between them and how completely at ease they are in each others company…but I can actually feel it. This is 100% what I want from my photos, authenticity, natural expression, not instagram worthy poses or showy venues. Just genuine loving relationships, couples who want to spend the rest of their lives together and celebrate with the people they love.
The best thing for me is that it is clear how at ease they felt in my company too :) To achieve such natural photos that represent the two of you, it is vital you feel relaxed and happy in your photographer's company. This is why I suggest an in-person meeting with my couples before they book where possible. Whether it is in a coffee shop or in Clara and Rob's case a soft play centre!! It is also why I recommend a pre-wedding shoot. This one can be particularly useful for the men as they tend to be the most apprehensive.
Saturday's wedding wasn't showy or grand in any way. It was intimate, sweet and perfect. It was merely about two people who love each other and want to share their lives and grow old together. I loved it.
The best thing for me is that it is clear how at ease they felt in my company too :) To achieve such natural photos that represent the two of you, it is vital you feel relaxed and happy in your photographer's company. This is why I suggest an in-person meeting with my couples before they book where possible. Whether it is in a coffee shop or in Clara and Rob's case a soft play centre!! It is also why I recommend a pre-wedding shoot. This one can be particularly useful for the men as they tend to be the most apprehensive.
Saturday's wedding wasn't showy or grand in any way. It was intimate, sweet and perfect. It was merely about two people who love each other and want to share their lives and grow old together. I loved it.
Special thanks:
Flowers @firsflowerfarm / Skirt @fatimaanguloatelier / Blouse @sezane /
Venue @thebellsofpeover / Hair @_nicky.salisbury_
Flowers @firsflowerfarm / Skirt @fatimaanguloatelier / Blouse @sezane /
Venue @thebellsofpeover / Hair @_nicky.salisbury_
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'Kitsch Wonderland' Styled Shoot
July 25, 2024
July 25, 2024
Where do I start. One brief conversation with a local Florist and a vision which grew and blossomed into a magical collaboration with a team of fantastic local suppliers.
The vision: A natural, rustic wedding vibe with vibrant warm summer tones and a contemporary kitsch twist. The inspiration: Firs Flower Farm, Helsby. The story: I found Imogen on Instagram, her flowers kept grabbing my attention. Such stunningly handsome bunches in fabulous rich colours I couldn't help but share her stories which then lead to one of my couples booking her for their wedding. We got chatting and decided to get together for a bit of a collab. I took some photos at her beautiful farm on Helsby Hill and one thing lead to another...all of a sudden we were in the throws of planning a styled shoot! We reached out to some local suppliers we already had connections with and each and every one was keen to jump on board! I had been wanting to do a styled shoot for a while but hadn't found one that really resonated with me, so to plan one of my own was just a dream. I also had my heart set on a 'real' couple as opposed to a model couple, to keep it as natural and unposed as possible, giving the impression of a real wedding rather than a styled shoot. I put out a post on Facebook and the lovely Ewa responded. She and her fiancee Anton were perfect. The best thing of all, I didn't need to 'direct' them or give them any 'prompts' they were just naturals! All of the suppliers involved were on the same page from the word go and fit the bill perfectly. The boho dress and floral veil, the whimsical bouquets and flower crown, the natural hair, the funky stationery, the kitsch cake, the retro VW camper, the vibrant tones!! I am in love with the results!
Special thanks:
Flowers @firsflowerfarm / Dress + Veil @cheshire_brides / Cake @tildeathbakery / Confetti @yourconfetti /
VW Camper @splitthedifferencecampervans / Velvet Banners @daydreamer_creative_studio /
Stationery @lucymarchstudio / Hair @charlotteelizabethhairbeauty / Concept + Photography @rodonnellphoto
Flowers @firsflowerfarm / Dress + Veil @cheshire_brides / Cake @tildeathbakery / Confetti @yourconfetti /
VW Camper @splitthedifferencecampervans / Velvet Banners @daydreamer_creative_studio /
Stationery @lucymarchstudio / Hair @charlotteelizabethhairbeauty / Concept + Photography @rodonnellphoto
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Meisha + Joe
8th June
A super sweet, stylish wedding from a traditional church ceremony to the after party at The Village Hotel, Bromborough.
8th June
A super sweet, stylish wedding from a traditional church ceremony to the after party at The Village Hotel, Bromborough.
Young love! It's clear these two are destined for life. We began the day at Meisha's family home, for bridal party prep - stepping into her wedding dress in her childhood bedroom...
Scroll down to see Meisha + Joe's golden hour engagement shoot on the beach.
Pre-wedding shoots are included in all of my main wedding packages.
Pre-wedding shoots are included in all of my main wedding packages.
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Natalie + Hugh
A super relaxed wedding full of fun and games at Parr Green Hall, Malpas, 4th May, 2024
A super relaxed wedding full of fun and games at Parr Green Hall, Malpas, 4th May, 2024
Oh my, where do I start? This wedding was right up my street – which is actually an accidental pun because Nat and Hugh actually live up my street! They approached me after seeing a bunch of my photos on social media, having a change of heart from the photographer they had original booked who they felt was much too structured and 'posed' in their approach. They both agreed that they didn't want posed, artificial looking couples portraits and actually felt really uncomfortable in front of the camera. My style was much more what they were after. I reassured them that I shoot mostly documentary and candid and that the couples portraits portion would be short and sweet if that's what they wanted and as always relaxed, fun and natural.
On the day I did what I always do which is arrive in good time for a brief "hello, how are you feeling?" chat and start photographing details; jewellery, perfume, invitations and any other important items so that my presence isn't too dominant at first. Hopefully by this point you've gotten used to me and so I start discreetly capturing candids of the bridal party. On the morning of Natalie and Hugh's wedding day, their little boy Alfie was quite emotional and upset, but her bridesmaids came to the rescue and read 'Peppa Pig Goes to a Wedding' to distract him and cheer him up. Absolute legends and such a lovely moment I just had to capture it. Children can become quite overwhelmed by the camera at times, particularly if they are centre of attention. So I try and stand back to give them a little break if I can see they are starting to get upset.
The ceremony was held in the beautiful rustic Scarlet Hall barn. I love the simplicity of this venue, the fairy light curtain at the 'alter', the large white drapes, big open windows. Who needs anything more? One thing I will say is, if you're considering floor candles and your dress has a big train or veil...do be extra careful when walking down the isle or consider a wider walkway. I could see the anxiety on guests faces watching Natalie walk down the isle, her dress inches away from the flames! This added to the drama of the moment of course and provided some fun footage ;-)
The other great thing about the barn, for us photographers, is the viewing gallery where you can get some really cool aerial shot of guests and observe the wedding from up in the heavens.
This wedding was filled with fun activities, bingo (as part of the groom's speech) – with prizes including a giant cardboard cut out of Cliff Richard and glitter ball helmet!, lawn games, and THE BEST surprise singing waiters around IMO. Now I didn't think I was a fan of singing waiters but these guys are something else! I have never seen or felt so much joy and emotion in one room. Guests were up on the tables singing their hearts out, young and old, they had everybody up dancing and singing along. If you want your wedding to be remembered for being joyful and silly and fun then do consider booking these guys. They are such nice guys too.
Enjoy the rest of these snaps; super natural couples portraits, giant space hoppers, glitter ball helmets and crazy dance-floor moves!
Dress Cheshire Brides of Frodsham / Suits www.cavaniofchester.co.uk / Hair Charlotte Elizabeth Hair
Videographer @kathrynberryfilms / Makeup @gemmabaxmua / Flowers + styling @littlebrickhse
Bridesmaids dresses @cicinia.co.uk / Venue Scarlet Hall @gail_and_chris @uniquehomestays
Surprise singers @surpriseshows /Acoustic duo @electric_clubland /Band @otc_band_uk
Videographer @kathrynberryfilms / Makeup @gemmabaxmua / Flowers + styling @littlebrickhse
Bridesmaids dresses @cicinia.co.uk / Venue Scarlet Hall @gail_and_chris @uniquehomestays
Surprise singers @surpriseshows /Acoustic duo @electric_clubland /Band @otc_band_uk
I was honoured to be asked to photograph Kerry + Jonathan's beautiful Chester wedding. With just 3 guests, close friends of theirs, it was so lovely to be a part of such an intimate day. I felt very welcome and included, with the regular offer of champagne which I turned down once or twice and then caved in haha! We began with bridal preparations, all very classy, calm and elegant. Then onto the groom for finishing touches.
The ceremony was short but very sweet, held in the 'Drawing room' which felt more like someone's living room than a wedding ceremony venue. Again, perfect for the intimacy of this wedding. I joined them for aperitifs on the landing and then it was outside for confetti. Kerry, Jonathan and I then head out around Chester for some couples portraits (with the help from lovely assistant Jo!). Jonathan proposed to Kerry underneath Chester's famous Eastgate Clock and so we took a few romantic portraits there before moving on to one of Chester's most beautiful quaint medieval streets, Godstall Lane, a favourite spot of mine! We had some laughs doing tipsy walks and hip-bumps as well as some classic fake flirting! And finally back to the Grosvenor for our final portraits (to fulfil some crazy ideas of mine...which you'll see at the end of this blog) and some more champagne and nibbles! What's not to love?!
I often have mad or creative ideas at weddings for portraits and I love it when my couples are up for it and don't just give me strange looks! So we had some smooches in the lift as the doors were closing (which to my delight were shiny gold!). Head to my instagram page to see the Gif. The porter's trolley also caught my eye. I wondered if he'd mind if I borrowed it for a photo? The porters and doormen at The Grosvenor are always so warm and friendly and of course they were happy to lend it to us! And here are the results...
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Meisha + Joe
Engagement shoot at Cubbins Green beach, Wirral.
Engagement shoot at Cubbins Green beach, Wirral.
I have been wanting to do an engagement shoot on the beach for a while. Until now they have mostly taken place in the city (Chester), parks or forest. The beach at sunset, I think, is one of the most romantic scenarios and the perfect location for a 'love shoot'! When I suggested the beach to Meisha and Joe they instantly said 'yes!' and it turns out Joseph grew up just along from this very beach.
The weather leading up to their shoot had been horrendous by the way! and I was checking the forecast daily, on the edge of my seat. We were due to shoot on Thursday but the closer it got the wetter the forecast became and so I made an executive decision to move it to the Friday, Good Friday. Luckily Meisha and Joe were free and happy to change it. The weather was still a bit iffy all day, but as I drove through torrential rain and got closer to the coast I could see blue skies ahead. We were so lucky! The clouds parted and gave us a beautiful golden hour. We had awesome shadows, sparkly water and a golden glow.
The couple had brought along their 9 month old puppy, Gus. So we took a stroll along the beach as they would normally when taking Gus for a walk. It was super relaxed as if we were friends meeting for an evening walk. Stopping for photos now and again, having some laughs, feeding Gus treats. I like to start my sessions with a walk and a talk to loosen up my couples and get them simply interacting with each other. They often laugh at the ridiculousness of the situation or take the Mickey out of each other. A laugh whether it's awkward or not is still a laugh and makes for great natural portraits! I like to keep things moving so my couples are not stiff and wondering how to stand, what to do with their hands etc. (having a dog is a great ice-braker!). So we may try some dancing, piggy backs or tipsy walks to up the energy and encourage some laughs. It's only really once we've warmed up a bit I might try some more static poses. When I say 'poses' I don't mean I will place you into a position and ask you to hold it, I simply may ask you to stand or sit and connect with each other in some way, whether it be hugging, kissing, holding hands or resting your head on your partners chest for example. My aim is to relax you as much as possible and capture the most authentic you. I think if I were to offer no direction at all most couples would freeze or be unsure what to do and therefore look more awkward or false in their photos. By offering gentle direction and then adding prompts to encourage emotion or laughter your photos are bound to feel more authentic and natural.
Meisha and Joe are getting married on June 8th, look out for their wedding photos!
If you are engaged and looking for a relaxed, fun, creatively inspired photographer please fill in the contact form and I will send you my Price Guide. All of my packages include a pre-wedding shoot just like Meisha and Joe's.
If you are engaged and looking for a relaxed, fun, creatively inspired photographer please fill in the contact form and I will send you my Price Guide. All of my packages include a pre-wedding shoot just like Meisha and Joe's.
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'The Dress'
Helping you take the stress out of finding 'the dress'.
Helping you take the stress out of finding 'the dress'.
Shopping for ‘the dress’ is (or should be) one of the most exciting tasks on your wedding ‘to do’ list, but it’s not for everyone. What should be a fun, enjoyable experience can often turn into the most daunting and stressful of tasks. My sister’s own search last year prompted me to write this blog – she finds it very hard to make decisions at the best of times and gets quite stressed out and anxious. She starts to doubt herself and whether she’s made the right decision. So you can imagine the self-doubt she had when it came to wedding dress shopping no matter how much my mum and I reassured her that she’d found the right one.
I will let you into a little secret. I STILL, 9 years after my wedding, think I could’ve chosen a better dress. I see so many beautiful styles (especially now working in the wedding industry) I think I would have loved more. Don’t get me wrong, when I found my dress it was a lightbulb moment, I knew it was the one for me and I felt amazing on the day. It was only since being exposed to so many others online and while shopping for my sister's dress that the internal dialogue started to niggle at me! But I don’t think it would matter which dress I’d have chosen, I’d still doubt myself because that’s just who I am!
The problem is there is SO MUCH choice nowadays. You don’t even have to opt for a dress if you don’t want to, you could go jumpsuit with pockets, separate top and skirt or trouser suit if you wanted, anything goes. What is on trend at the moment? Wait, should I be original and go for something different rather than wearing what everyone else is wearing? and why go for traditional white when I could wear my favourite colour, hot pink?! Gaaahhhhh!!! The options are endless! And although this is great news for any alternative brides out there it’s no wonder brides are getting their garters in twist (lol) and lets not even mention the neuro-divergent folk between us! That’s another story altogether.
"Heart over head all the way when it comes to your wedding day, I say!"
So, to hopefully take some of the stress out of finding your wedding dress, I have put together a few tips and suggestions on how to approach this huge decision making process:
1. First up, it’s where we all start our search. Don’t get carried away online. By all means browse Pinterest or bridal shops online to decipher what styles or designers you seem to gravitate towards but note them down and move on.
2. Pick a maximum of 3 dress shops. When you find a ‘wow’ dress, one that makes you feel amazing and most importantly feel like ‘you’…STOP!! If you don’t see any you love then try a couple more but if you start getting confused it’s time to take a break.
3. If you’re not set on a made-to-measure garment, why not order some to try on at home. Have fun with it. Go crazy, order the ones that give you butterflies! Imagine yourself walking down the isle in them. Can you picture it?
4. Think about your budget. Do you really need to spend 2k on a dress you’re only going to wear for one day? Does it really matter if it’s a mail order from ASOS, an esteemed designer or an off the peg bargain as long as you feel beautiful and confident in it? Think about your priorities. No one has to know where you bought it if you don’t want them to and who cares what ‘they’ think anyway? Easy to say I know. As much as we keep telling ourselves it’s our day, there’s something niggling in the back of our minds, a want to impress and wow our guests. But to me if a bride looks stunning, I wouldn’t care less how much she paid for it, in fact I think I’d be way more impressed if she’d got it for a bargain from a high street store. But if you have the budget and are of the opinion that it’s the one day you can justify splurging on an outfit then go for it!
5. How do you want to feel? What vibe do you want to give off? Do you want to look elegant? Cool? Contemporary? Alternative? Vintage? Dramatic? Understated? Boho? Chic? Don’t worry about what will be expected of you or what you ‘usually’ wear, it’s your day, go off piste if that’s what your heart desires. Heart over head all the way when it comes to your wedding day, I say!
6. Decide what is most important to you? That you look and feel amazing? That your dress is unique or alternative and will get your guests talking? That your future husband or wife will think you look stunning? That it fits in with the vibe of the day? Score these from most important to least and keep that top priority firmly in mind when shopping for your dress and trying them on.
7. If after following these tips, you’re still stressed and confused. Just remember it’s only one day and the most important thing is, you’re about to marry your soulmate, the person who loves you for who you are and will think you look stunning whether you’re wearing a two piece or a full on gown. Hell, they should be happy if you turn up wearing a bin bag! ;-)
The dresses featured in this blog are all from Cheshire Brides of Frodsham. They are a lovely helpful team and have a superb range of designer dresses. Go check them out! Manager, Claire says:
"Cheshire Brides have been helping the beautiful brides of Cheshire for over 40 years in finding their dream wedding dresses. Our stylists are experienced in knowing what style of dress will complement each body style. We are able to order dresses in sizes 6-30. We want every bride who walks through our door to feel special and we offer a relaxed and calm environment to browse through our collection of over 100 dresses."
I asked Claire and some of my lovely brides, if you have one piece of advice what would it be? Here's what they said:
"My one piece of advice to an anxious bride would be to book an appointment, stay open minded and allow your stylist the opportunity to use their expertise in matching you to your perfect wedding dress."
Claire, Cheshire Brides of Frodsham
Claire, Cheshire Brides of Frodsham
"Make sure when you set a budget that you include at least £200 for alterations especially if you are buying straight off the rack! Or ask if the alterations are included in the price of the dress."
Kelly (Chester Racecourse, October 2023)
Kelly (Chester Racecourse, October 2023)
"I didn't even do a proper wedding dress shop, mine was from Monsoon! So maybe to consider high street stores like ASOS, Monsoon, Coast, Debenhams etc. as they're really good quality nowadays, reasonably priced and you can try them on at home without all the faff of going into shops."
Charlotte (Bluebell Cafe & Chester River Cruises, April 2023)
Charlotte (Bluebell Cafe & Chester River Cruises, April 2023)
"I personally would say to find something which makes you feel great, regardless to the price. I knew I didn’t want to spend a fortune and focused on photography as my priority. I definitely would advise trying the low budget dresses first and then decide what is most important."
Arianna (Cock-O Barton, April 2023)
Arianna (Cock-O Barton, April 2023)
"Take your nearest and dearest with you as you have spent a lifetime trying outfits on in front of them and they know what looks good on you! Do try on all the dresses even if they are not your style as it really is the one you don't expect, this was the case for my first experience trying on dresses. Although, I fell in love with mine online and tried a few on before I tried the one I had fallen in love with just to be sure! Smaller retailers really do go the extra mile for you."
Michelle (Ness Gardens, October 2023)
Michelle (Ness Gardens, October 2023)
Great advice ladies! Now go rock that dress....or jumpsuit or whatever you decide to go for, girrrrrl!!!!
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Angela + Matthew
Anniversary shoot at Peckferton Castle, 9th March 2024
Anniversary shoot at Peckferton Castle, 9th March 2024
Wow. What can I say? Stunning venue, stunning dress, stunning couple.
When Angela contacted me a couple of months ago from the US to enquire about booking an anniversary Photoshoot at Peckferton Castle, I didn’t need to think twice. YES PLEASE!!! She and husband Matthew were travelling to the UK for their 5th wedding anniversary and Peckferton was one of their stop offs. I have never been to Peckferton let alone shot there and so I was very excited to see what all the hype was about. And it did not disappoint!
Before meeting, we discussed outfits but Angela didn’t need any advice or suggestions from me, she had it all planned, she would be wearing “a long black strapless dress with tulle train and tulle detachable sleeves”. I knew it would be stunning. We talked about accessories, red lipstick, potentially a red rose or rose petals to play with. So with that in mind, I got planning...
When you book a photoshoot, I don’t just turn up and take the photos. So much more goes into each session, behind the scenes. You will receive a questionnaire from me which will cover things like ages of any children, what things they are into, personalities, any concerns you might have about your shoot etc. This will give me a little backstory, just enough information for me to plan how I’m going to approach your session. It helps me picture it in my mind. Then in the run up to your shoot I start writing notes, these are usually broken down into 3 sections: Locations/settings, Poses or positions (walking, sitting, standing) and Prompts (tricks and techniques to encourage movement, expression, natural emotion). Each Photoshoot is different but I give them all my equal attention and write fresh notes each time. This way I am never complaisant or platoing? I come to each session with a new energy, fresh ideas. I am always looking for inspiration from photographers I admire; Eric Floberg, Taylor Jones, John Branch to name but a few and watch their videos online. These notes usually end up being a scribbly mess! So I will write out a neater more concise version to take with me on the shoot. This may not be everyone’s approach but it works for me. I find if I have some sort of plan in my head, tricks up my sleeve I can relax into it more and go in with confidence. Of course, you can’t plan for everything, especially when kids are involved! To quote Forest Gump “You never know what you’re gonna get” 😂 But that makes it more interesting.
For Angela and Matthews shoot, I had a vision, a strategy and although some things didn’t come into fruition (I couldn’t get hold of a rose in time and to our disappointment the petals on the bed were white!) but hey ho, the results are better than I imagined and I’m super pleased with the final edits. And Angela’s words “OMG I am dying!!! 😍” when I sent the sneak preview said it all. Your reactions are what I live for. They make my job all the more rewarding.
Here are some of my favourites below...
We started in their grand bedroom suite, which was fun and allowed us to get a bit creative and intimate! One of the questions I ask my couples in the questionnaire is: 'are you comfortable with being intimate in front of the camera?', the options are: 'Yes we are happy to be affectionate in public', 'We are a bit shy and may need some encouragement' or 'We are quite private and would rather not if that's ok'. That way you can opt in or out and I know in advance whether you are comfortable or not with being asked to kiss etc.
We explored the castle interior, including the grand staircase Angela had seen online when looking at photos of Peckferton. And ventured into a large ballroom with a bright red carpet and huge windows, perfect for some dancing prompts! Their glamorous black outfits fitting perfectly against the red backdrop.
Then outside for some stunning castle backdrops and portraits of Angela in her statement ball gown. She wore the same earrings she wore on her wedding day...
And finally to finish off, a double-exposed photo I created using one of my favourites from the shoot.
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Alice + Paige
Chester Registry Office, Saturday, 10th Feb 2024
Chester Registry Office, Saturday, 10th Feb 2024
A couple of Saturdays ago I witnessed (through a lens) the marriage of these two lovely girls. They approached me last summer to discuss their August wedding at Oddfellows and from the moment we met I knew we were well-matched and on the same page (pardon the pun) when it came to photographing their wedding. Paige had lots of creative ideas and got me buzzing with ideas of my own!
Fast forward to December 2023 when I received a message from Alice to say that they were bringing their marriage forward due to a family illness and that they would love me to be there to capture it. The August wedding would still go ahead as planned. I was honoured and fully on board of course. Despite the solemn circumstances, it was a really lovely afternoon. An intimate ceremony at Chester Registry Office with just a few of their nearest and dearest, followed by some really fun couples portraits around Chester. Paige was keen to have fun with the photos as she knew it would be sad looking back on photos of her Nan:
“We want a few with my nana (she will be in a wheelchair) and then I want fun creative ones with Al as the memories as looking at pictures with people that have passed can be hard.”
So with Paige’s suggestions and props and my Pinterest board we came up with some really fun portraits!
Kicking off with a romantic milkshake in Five Guys...
Followed by some flirting outside a red phone box...
Then heart confetti and sunglasses on the Town Hall steps and a quick swig of bubbly.
A trip to Chester New Market to freeze a moment in time amongst a busy crowd at the bar (where sadly a rude barman made sarcastic comments under his breath, I must add!)...
Oh and not forgetting a trip to the Asian grocery store and a quick smooch in the plant shop! Aaaaand breathe! The poor girls were exhausted 😂 What a pair of legends. I am so happy with the results.
It just goes to show, wedding photos don’t have to be traditional or ‘samey’, the sky is your limit! I am a firm believer that your day is your day and you should do it YOUR way. People will have their opinions and ideas but at the end of the day, your wedding should be whatever you want it to be.
If you want to ride a miniature railway on your wedding day. You do you.
If you want to share a milkshake in Five Guys. You do you.
If you want your dog to be the ring bearer. Well that’s on you (lol).
Just sayin’, go have the best day of YOUR lives! And however you choose to celebrate, I am 100% behind you and will be there to capture it all with a smile on my face.
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Happy New Year
Tuesday, 16th Jan 2024
Tuesday, 16th Jan 2024
This may seem a bit late in the day but it can take time to ease into the new year, after the decs come down and the dust settles. We take our decorations down on Jan 1st. They just don't feel as magical after Christmas and in our house it signifies a fresh start. Time to 'get crackin'!
Some things I have promised myself this year...
More self-care; this includes more walks, more exercise, more water, more fruit and veggies and more time with my husband. I've started well with 4 walks already (including Helsby Hill, photos above), a HUGE new 1.8L water bottle which I'm swigging from regularly! and 25 press-ups most days. Pat on the back for me. The key is consistency. I HAVE to keep it up or it's down the slippery slope I go!
More self-care; this includes more walks, more exercise, more water, more fruit and veggies and more time with my husband. I've started well with 4 walks already (including Helsby Hill, photos above), a HUGE new 1.8L water bottle which I'm swigging from regularly! and 25 press-ups most days. Pat on the back for me. The key is consistency. I HAVE to keep it up or it's down the slippery slope I go!
Photography-wise, 2024 for me is about growth + education, pushing myself creatively and filling my diary with Weddings! I am one year into my professional photography journey (excuse the 'J' word!) and proud of how far I have come in such a short space of time. I truly believe if you consistently put the work in, you get something back. And so I will continue to educate myself and push myself creatively to give my future couples and families a product and service that's not just 'satisfactory' but outstanding, unique, memorable.
Because photography is not a commodity, we photographers have to work extra hard for bookings and give something extra to our clients to justify the absolute value of what we do. And that is what I intend to do this year and into the future, build a product that is super special, charming, thoughtful and unique. Provide a service that goes above and beyond what the customer expects. When you are paying a lot of money for a service, you deserve to be wowed!
Watch this space...
Other things in the pipeline
My last shoot of 2023 was a super relaxed at-home festive photoshoot, where I captured the family hanging out, decorating cookies, reading together plus some details around the family home that caught my eye. It got me thinking, I want to offer a 'Day in the Life' type photo session, a nod to nostalgia if you like, where I capture what will be your children's memories of growing up. The details, the daily habits and routines, the games you play etc. These would then be displayed in a photo book, telling your unique story of family life, the home your children grew up in. I love the idea that this book will get passed down through the generations for future children and grandchildren to witness their ancestors home life.
I have a competition running on Instagram to win a free at-home family shoot including photo book. Enter for yourself or a friend/relative and help me reach my milestone of 1k followers! Use this link or click the instagram icon below:
https://www.instagram.com/p/C2Amwy3tKok/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
Here's to a year of growth!